I think (a) some people just don't pay attention to people they don't think are important/useful/interesting to them, and (b) for some people, "important/useful/interesting to me" is strongly affected by "how attractive they are to me". So people who're both (a) and (b) might come across in the way Vanessa is describing.
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Date: 2009-07-05 11:46 am (UTC)