Well, I can say, hand on heart, that I've never fancied you. I don't mean that in a nasty way, and I'm sure you know I don't. However, I have noticed, on many occasions, that your volume control seems to believe that LOUD is the right end to be set at. ;)
Vanessa is very much wrong. I notice the existence of many people I have no desire to get intimate with. I would even go as far as to say I often prefer the company of people where I don't feel any pressure and am not constantly aware of how uncool and dorky I am. I often choose to sit with people who are just good fun to be around because there's so much less pressure when it's just a group of friends than when you're thinking/wondering/hoping that bedroom action might happen. ;)
I'm sure what Vanessa says has a tiny grounding in reality. I'm sure there are some men who do that, but then I'm sure there are some women who do it as well. I think the person Vanessa is giving advice to has had some reasonably bad advice. It could be that the guy just really likes her company, but doesn't want a relationship with her. It's possible that the guy wants sexy time with her, but the basis of Vanessa's advice is bull. :)
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Date: 2009-07-05 03:33 pm (UTC)Vanessa is very much wrong. I notice the existence of many people I have no desire to get intimate with. I would even go as far as to say I often prefer the company of people where I don't feel any pressure and am not constantly aware of how uncool and dorky I am. I often choose to sit with people who are just good fun to be around because there's so much less pressure when it's just a group of friends than when you're thinking/wondering/hoping that bedroom action might happen. ;)
I'm sure what Vanessa says has a tiny grounding in reality. I'm sure there are some men who do that, but then I'm sure there are some women who do it as well. I think the person Vanessa is giving advice to has had some reasonably bad advice. It could be that the guy just really likes her company, but doesn't want a relationship with her. It's possible that the guy wants sexy time with her, but the basis of Vanessa's advice is bull. :)
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