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hellison ([personal profile] hellison) wrote2008-11-23 09:19 pm

Sometimes you'd REALLY rather be right

The weekend has been been going pretty well. Sofa/cider friday night, down to see the family yesterday and today, making a start on clearing the kitchen, and more sofa.

Then I was reading this , about how four policemen were killed in a car crash here last night,and got to the point were some policitian or other came out with There won't be a single family in south Down who won't know one of those killed.
Meh. I thought. Typical ridiculously overblown pointless statement. Like *everyone* is going to know one of them.

Not long after the Mother rings to tell me one of them was my cousin's husband, Declan.


Hopefully your weekend is coming to a more cheeful conclusion!

[identity profile] failing-angel.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Arse, sorry to hear that.
My condolences.

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, I didn't know him very well, but he was a good guy.

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_unhurt_/ 2008-11-23 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
well, fuck.

your poor cousin.

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
That was pretty much exactly my reaction.

[identity profile] fragglechick.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh fuck. I'm sorry to hear that love.

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, I didn't know him very well, but it must be a nightmare for my cousin and their kids.

[identity profile] fragglechick.livejournal.com 2008-11-23 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god yeah...

[identity profile] thipe.livejournal.com 2008-11-24 09:27 am (UTC)(link)
Well, fucksticks.

*hugs*

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-24 10:56 am (UTC)(link)
thanks. And that's the appropiate response I think.

[identity profile] lazy-hoor.livejournal.com 2008-11-25 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, pet. That's awful. I heard that on the radio on the way back from Kerry. Awful. My condolences.

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-25 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, it's a horrible thing to happen, I can't imagine what my cousin is going through.

[identity profile] thesme-01.livejournal.com 2008-11-26 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh jesus christ. I saw that on the news and thought how sad it was but didn't imagine.. uh.

Shit shit shit.

and F you, November.

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-26 12:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I was reading the news thing thinking how awful it was then Mum phones to say one of them was Declan and... yeah. Shit.
Funeral tomorrow. Can't imagine how R (my cousin) and the kids are getting though that.

[identity profile] thesme-01.livejournal.com 2008-11-27 09:49 am (UTC)(link)
Fuck's sake. Can't believe it!

:(

Anything I can do?

[identity profile] hellison.livejournal.com 2008-11-27 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
provide wines and foods and rantings etc tomorrow!